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  • Maya
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    Good memories in this thread at least.

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  • Waidmann
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    Originally posted by Edelweiss View Post
    Nowadays the teens dress like they are 20.
    There's the rub indeed. It becomes hard to tell who's under aged and who's not. I once even asked girls ID's to check it. it was at a dancing where a friend of mine and me were mistaken for security members. Looking as security members we suddenly took advantage of the case and asked the ID's some interesting girls, just for "checking". If we met someone with a respectable age, we went for it. It was a night to remember ...

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  • Edelweiss
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    A lot of older guys like younger girls and vice versa. Nowadays the teens dress like they are 20. My parents would have never let me out of the house like that.
    I think if a guy or girl lusts after someone 30 years younger or more I find that pervy whether the other one is 18 or not.

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  • Art in Heaven
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    At my school we had a maths teacher called Mr Bloomer, (as an 11 yaer old I found that quite funny), and he was having an affair with a 15 year old girl in the school. Suddenly he was gone, and we never thought anything about the pervert till he suddenly reappeared when I was 14 calling himself Mr Robinson. So, the school had clearly condoned his behaviour, moved him on when the girls parents found out about this filthy bastard, and when they eventually married when she was 18, (he was about 48 by this time), allowed him back under a changed name!
    Within 4 months he had a brain embolism and died a vegetable after a further 5 months. That was the only time in my life that I suspected there might actually be a god.
    I hated the cunt from the day I met him, and his lust for young girls wasn't just focused on the 15 year old. I'm glad he died miserably.

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  • Edelweiss
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    Waidmann ~ If you did date one of them you could have a movie made about your life just like Mary Kay Laternau. (Sp) she even married the kid after serving her prison term and they are still married.

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  • Waidmann
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    Originally posted by Edelweiss View Post
    That's why I need dating help, I attract nutcases, they just come to me. They must think I am a psych nurse.
    I attract jailbait, that's not fun either . I have to let nice, often beautiful people down for perhaps something quite superficial as age. As a teacher in secondary school I can only date persons who've been graduated from secondary or who knows they might one day end up in my class someday.

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  • Edelweiss
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    Originally posted by Art in Heaven View Post
    The question to ask yourself is has he or his mother or both ever been on the Jerry springer show.
    If not I imagine they will be soon.............
    I hate to be judgemental, and the guy makes more $ than me but he is still pretty white trash.
    I always likened my life to Fiona and Shameless, except mine was a little better. I would so live in a council house in Woolwich if England would let me. I can only dream.

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  • Maya
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    I'll check in google later

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  • Art in Heaven
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    Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

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  • Art in Heaven
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    The question to ask yourself is has he or his mother or both ever been on the Jerry springer show.
    If not I imagine they will be soon.............

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  • Edelweiss
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    Snake ~ He is, I think he hasa picture of what he wants in life and the only part left blank is the female who he will fill in with anyone. When I told him I was going to Rock On The Range he wanted me to drive 3 hours to get him and then drive the 10 hours to Ohio from his house. When I explained that is way too much driving in 1 night he said he will catch the bus. (He can't drive cuz of alcohol related driving incidents. He said he is getting his license back soon)
    ArtInHeaven~ I feel bad for him, from the way his Mom yelled at him when he is on the phone I can tell she is nuts too. Once I told an unstable guy nicely I wasn't interested he went psych assylum on me and verbally abused me for hours so I am hoping this guy won't flip out. I am going to re iterate friends only and he already said that would be good.
    You ~ it is hard to find good friends. I don't always initiate texts or phone calls only sometimes, it doesn't mean I don't appreciate someone it just means I think they are busy. I try to do something with my friends that live in town at least once a month and the ones that don't as often as I can.
    Maya ~ That's why I need dating help, I attract nutcases, they just come to me. They must think I am a psych nurse.

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  • Maya
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    Originally posted by You View Post

    .....

    there is this nice quote i got recently and quite resembles this and my thinking about this or how i should say D:

    "Sometimes we put up walls...
    Not to keep people out,
    but to see who cares enough to knock them down..."

    oh sorry for this long dumb post that isnt really related to anything here =o i got carried away or whatt. i just want everyone not to consider it a bother to be cared about... im sorrie
    @You you are amazing, if they don't want you as a friend, fuck them. They lose more than you.

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  • Snake
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    ^You need to stop worrying so much about what others think about you, and worry more about using paragraphs when writing long posts.

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  • You
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    Originally posted by Art in Heaven View Post
    Get rid of him. If he has a mental breakdown then that's just too bad, he's not your responsibility. He's clearly unstable and you need him out of your life.
    eh...
    from the description i can kindof imagine him like myself. but he is different. im not talking about relationships like that now but friendships =o since i only had/have/having one relationship with a girl ever and if she doesnt care enough of me i either cry in myself or try to act normally but still differently so she can see that something is wrong. soo well. talking about friendships, at the start i always cheer(or what word to use) in myself that i got a new friend, but since my experience is that people totally hate being cared about, maybe becouse they dont know what loneliness is and cant appretiate their friends, and consider you an annoyance if you are caring about them too much, i always try to keep everything in myself and not show to care too much about them until they show that they do unless i see that they dont mind if i do... but then i might start to care too much again and many people compared me to a stalker already. but if they just start to ignore me and dont even tell me that im annoying or that they dont care then i am usually mean to them then not talk to them until they show that i mean something for them. so i make them decide. if they leave me becouse of that then there is usually a heartache/pain that is likely to make me cry and never leave me completely. then i always(not just usually) try to get them back and act like nothing happened and that i was just in a bad mood and promise that i will never do it again. if they really care about me they will accept me back as a friend, if not, i ask myself why did they pretended to care before if now they not? why is it any different? or is it only becouse there was an argument and a bad moment? if thats the case were they ever real friends? why do they just throw people away like that? becouse of that, i always wondered if other people can/want to remember the good memories and try to get them back or im mentally retarded for wanting to get good friends back instead of just getting new ones and throwing them away like trash i dont need anymore.
    so um yep. if they want me back it is just way better than it was before. we can most likely appretiate each other a lot more and the bond got stronger between us. we can also know now what not to do to the other one and not live through something like this again(if thats how to say :O). its like a level up in the relationship. and its like a test that can be passed by just showing the care to the other, and if passed both of us know that we want them and care about them and that we are going to be better and better friends over time. everyone just have to learn from their mistakes and accept that others can make mistakes too, even intentionally, and that they shouldnt overreact it. or if they do, they should do so to test the person.
    there is this nice quote i got recently and quite resembles this and my thinking about this or how i should say D:

    "Sometimes we put up walls...
    Not to keep people out,
    but to see who cares enough to knock them down..."

    oh sorry for this long dumb post that isnt really related to anything here =o i got carried away or whatt. i just want everyone not to consider it a bother to be cared about... im sorrie

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  • Maya
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    Originally posted by Art in Heaven View Post
    Also, I'm fairly sure this was not the way Maya saw this thread ending up.
    This forum always surprise me....

    Nice to read you @AiH

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